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Fall is Here, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years are Coming!

Sunday, September 28th, 2008

Here we go into the ‘holiday season’.  Seems a little early to think about that, doesn’t it?  For your weight loss, or even weight maintenance, journey to progress, you need to do some planning now.  Remember the ‘M’ in Magic Help?  Meal Plan.  Your Holiday plan will have to include more than meals.

If we have a plan will we ’slip’ during the holidays – probably.  But without a meal plan, we will slip right out of our journey, not just an occasional ’slip’ that can be offset by more activity/less eating.  If you go on a trip, you map out the roads you take, the places you will stay, and the sites you will see.  If you don’t plan, you are liable to spend the whole trip getting lost and trying to find the right road.

What plans can we make?  Holidays usually means shopping.  Eat before you leave to shop.   Take your fresh veggies to snack on.  Drink water instead of the sugary fatty holiday drinks.  Remember to eat a smaller amount every few hours rather than shopping several hours, then binging on a large meal.

As for the family dinners and potlucks, there are lots of recipes for low fat and sugar free foods.  Last Thanksgiving I made my MIL cranberry relish/salid with fresh cranberries, fresh orange, fresh apple – ground them up, and used granulated sugar substitute for the 3 cups of sugar.  It was delicious, nutritious, and sugar free.

When fixing the turkey and gravy, we used fat free chicken broth.  With plenty of raw veggies on the tray and fat free ranch dressing for a dip, snacks were great.  One tray had fat free sour cream mixed with  dry Italian dressing mix for a great tasting dip.  Cooked vegetables were low-fat, such as using artificial bacon bits in the green beans for the bacon taste.  Having baked sweat potatoes without the sugar and marsh-mellows cuts down the calories.

What about Grandma’s pumpkin pie, apple pie, and pecan pie?  Hey, we all have some special dish or desert which makes the day.  If Grandma doesn’t cook with low fat and artificial sugar, that’s just a fact of life.  So, have a piece – make it a smaller piece or cut it in half.  And remember what we said in Diet -  a Series of Choices - you don’t have to NEVER have that special dish, just not often and try to offset it with exercise/activity.

With all this attention to the ingredients, don’t forget portion control.  Take a smaller plate, put your meat on one third the plate, your veggies on another third, and a starch such as potatoes or bread on the other third.  That doesn’t mean pile it sky high now.  Have a small piece of desert.  Drink water or plain ice tea.  Since you have been on your weight loss journey, you will find the smaller portions more satisfying.

AHH – I almost forgot.  NO TASTING THE FOOD WHILE COOKING OR SERVING.  If you have to much, get into the raw veggie tray.

So let’s have fun the next few months, staying aware of our journey and our goals.  Wear your MAGIC HELP touchstones, or carry them in your pocket, to remind you of your eating and activity/exercise plan.

Leave a comment with your holiday helps and/or recipes.

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Promises We Make About Weight Loss to Ourselves

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

How many promises do you make  to yourself while on a diet that you never fulfill?  Like the way I wrote posts this month.  I promised myself I would get a post written twice a week at least.  I even have the subjects outlined.  But, like when I eat off program and then promise myself it will be better next week, that I will quit cheating tomorrow, I didn’t.

This spring I have been going to my weekly check-ins and answering the same questions with the same answers for months.  I know that I am not going to do what I say I will.  And who are these ‘promises’ made to?  To me.  I am the one who will or won’t do it.  I am the one who is effected by it.  Not the lady I am talking to.  Her life will go on the same – and unfortunately, so will mine.  If I don’t even make an effort to change my habits, I won’t lose weight and I won’t get healthier.

The biggest damage I did by these meaningless promises was to enforce the feeling that I would not succeed.  Not because I couldn’t, but because I wouldn’t.  I fell back into the old trap of looking down on myself.  I did manage to not beat myself up by calling myself names.  However,  I did drive myself into discouragement and the ‘whats the use’ state using my broken promises as the example.

I have been expressing this as my experience.  I know it is not just mine.  I know many of us do the same thing. I also know that part of the reason it happened is I only had 5-6 hours of sleep a night, worked 40 hours a week, and helped with my grand-kids everyday.  Then I tried to watch some recorded TV shows and work online.  In short, I was burning the candle at both ends.

This week I have written down everything I did, including ME time.  I have written down everything I ate and drank.  I have not been perfect, but I do see I did attempt to fulfill my goals for the week.  I can take encouragement in my accomplishments.  I can say that I attempted to meet my promises instead of ignoring them.

Please realize that if you are 80-100 pounds heavier than your healthy weight and it is not caused by a medical condition, you have issues which are more than just over eating.  You have what some people call emotional problems, but actually comes down to self-image and self-worth.

What self-made stumbling blocks do you face in your weight loss journey?

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