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Rants and Raves about Dieting

Sunday, February 22nd, 2009

Diet, a four letter word!  No wonder all the brand name diets are saying ‘diet’s don’t work’.  My opinion:  A rose by any other name is still the same.  And a diet by any other name is still a diet.  A weight loss, or even weight gain, diet consists of more than what you eat. It also encompasses your exercise level, your self-image, your self-talk, and your attitude.

How many times have you heard:  it’s not how much you eat, but what you eat.  Boy is that true!  Some foods are loaded with calories, fats, and sugars.  One bite of them can take up the quota for one meal.  I have even seen treats that give you the whole days quota of fats in one ’serving’.

And that brings up servings.  I look at one bag of chips and it says it is 100 calories per serving.  Great!  But the small bag  contains 5 servings!  So it is really 500 calories.  Then you look at the fats, sugars, and carbs.  What appears to be a healthy choice by the wrappings turns out to be just as bad by the servings.

Portion control is an elusive concept to me.  Not as a concept, but in putting it into practice.   It includes total calories, balance nutrients, and timing of your eating.  One type of person can fix the foods, and measure the portions to make their own ‘frozen dinners.’  I am not that type.  I would binge while preparing the various dishes and put a little more in each portion.  That’s how I became overweight.

Then there is the exercising.  One way is to used a pedometer to count your steps.  That is good if you want to ensure that you walk your healthy 10,000 steps a day.  To be quite honest, that doesn’t count as exercise.  The walk you talk for exercise, the time on the bike, or in the gym is exercise.  If you count every step you take during the day, you are including your normal activities.  Exercise doesn’t count unless it is extra – that is, you do your normal activities plus exercise.

Then there is the  way you see yourself and you talk to yourself.  If you are continuously downgrading yourself or calling yourself names, you have no chance of success.  You need to realize that you – that every individual – deserves to be a healthy weight.  Give yourself a break.  Instead of being down on yourself for over eating, figure out why you are overeating.

I don’t know how others lose weight, but I have to D I E T.

D – dinner and all other meals and snacks by portion control

I – my self-image and self-talk – how I see and treat myself

E – exercise above and beyond normal daily activites

T – timing of my meals and snacks to be every 3 hours using portion control.

Do you DIET?  Leave a comment.

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Good News: Succeed at Weight Loss/Gain

Sunday, November 30th, 2008
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How can you reach your weight loss/gain goal?  Just as there are simple rules that cannot be changed to lose weight, there is one rule to succeed.  ‘The only way you can fail is to quit.’

I heard this in regards to starting an online business.  Thinking about it, I realized that this is true in my weight loss also.  I did so well when I started the last time.  I lost almost 30 pounds.  The length of time it took me to lose it really doesn’t matter unless I am trying to spin it to sell something.  The thing that matters is that I lost it.  Then I gained it back, or most of it.  The good news is I was gaining about 10 pounds a year previous to the last year and a half.  Then I started taking a medication that some people gain 20 pounds a year on.  I still am under my starting weight.

Why am I boring you with my story?  Not because I am proud of it.  I feel a bit ashamed to admit it.  I am telling you this so you realize – just because you gain some weight (or lose if you are trying to gain) is NO reason to quit.  In fact, just because you reach your goal is no reason to quit (or you might back slide, so you have to maintain).

What I can say is  I am more aware of what I eat and why I eat.  Everyday I realize what I eat that is outside my eating plan – it may be a ‘permitted’ food, but over the calories or just foods that I shouldn’t eat to continue to lose.

If I am going to be of any help to anyone reading this, I must be honest.  And being honest to you I have to be honest with myself.  That makes me accountable since I care what my readers feel.  Each of you are a unique and precious individual.  Each of you deserves to reach your healthy goal.  And every pound we gain or lose towards our goal makes us healthier.  It boosts our self-image and self-confidence.

So remember when you decide to tell yourself what a failure you are to stop yourself.  Remember what you have accomplished.  And always remember that

The only way you can fail is to QUIT.   So don’t.

Now it is your turn.  Share what progress you have made in your thinking, attitude, education, and/or weight change.  Remember – this applies whether you are trying to gain or lose weight.  Leave your comments!

Also, I have started a forum at I have started a new forum on weight loss and weight gain. Come join in http://groups.myspace.com/betheweightyouwant.  It is on MySpace.com, so be sure to add me as a friend also.

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